Zindagi mein kabhi na kabhi hum sab ne kisi ko itni izzat de di hoti hai, jitni shayad unhe samajh bhi nahi aayi. Aapne bhi diya hoga — dil se, bina kisi matlab ke. Aur phir? Waqt ne dikhaya ke jis rishte ko hum zarurat se zyada izzat dete hain, wahi rishte kabhi kabhi sabse zyada dard dete hain.
Aaj ka yeh article usi jazbaat ka izhar hai — kuch Shayariyon ke zariye, jo aapke dil ke andar ke dard ko lafzon mein bayaan karti hai.
💔 Jab Izzat Tod Di Jaye: Kya Waqt Sabak Deta Hai?
Kabhi kisi ko itni izzat di ke khud ki hi nazron mein gir gaye? Yeh lines un lamhon ki yaad dilaati hain:
“Kisi ko itni izzat mat do,
Ki wo khud ko Khuda samajhne lage.”
“Jarurat se zyada izzat di thi maine,
Isliye aaj khud ki nazaron mein gir gaya hoon.”
🔹 Visual Suggestion: A broken mirror showing a blurred reflection of a person — signifying broken self-respect.
😞 Izzat Aur Bewafai Ka Rishta: Apno Se Hi Dard?
Jise dil se apna samjha, wahi bewafai kar jaye — ye sabse bada dhoka hota hai. Shayari ne is jazbaat ko kitna sach bola hai:
“Izzat di thi tumhe dil se,
Tumne use samjha kamzori se.”
“Jis rishte mein maine sab kuch diya,
Usi rishte ne mujhe sabse zyada rulaya.”
🧠 Ever had that one friend or lover who just took you for granted?
👁️ Shayari Jo Aankhon Ko Khol De: Aakhir Kab Seekhenge?
Kabhi socha hai, hum kyun bar-bar girte hain? Shayari ka ek line jaise thappad jaisa lagta hai:
“Zarurat se zyada izzat,
Aksar khud ka nuksan karwati hai.”
“Maine jis se izzat ki umeed nahi ki thi,
Usi ne meri izzat ko samjha kuch nahi.”
🔹 Relatable Visual: An empty chair with a shadow sitting — representing expectations from the wrong people.
👬 Dosti Aur Izzat: Ek Tarfa Rishta?
Kya aapne bhi kisi dost ko bhagwan samajh liya? Har baar bardasht kiya, sirf isliye kyunki “wo apna hai”?
“Dost tha, isliye har baat bardasht ki,
Izzat di, isliye usne har baar tok diya.”
“Jab apne hi izzat ka mol samajhne lagein,
Tab samajh lena rishta sirf ek taraf se tha.”
🙋 You might be thinking: “Mujhe hi kyun samajhna padta hai sab kuch?”
🧡 Because you’re the one who cares. But kab tak?
✍️ Real-Life Inspired Shayari: Sacchai Chubhti Hai
Zindagi mein sabse bura lagta hai jab aap kisi ko izzat se dekhte ho, aur wo us izzat ko pair tale kuchal dete hain:
“Tumhe izzat di, kyunki tum uss layak the,
Tumne us izzat ko pair tale kuchal diya.”
“Izzat wo chiz hai jo ek baar chali jaye,
To sab kuch hote hue bhi khaali lagta hai.”
🔹 Suggested Visual: A crumpled piece of paper with the word “Respect” written on it — symbolizing disrespect.
🕰️ Jab Zindagi Sikhati Hai: Sabak Har Baar Mehenga Hota Hai
Aakhir mein, waqt sabko sabak sikhata hai. Shayari ki yeh lines usi zindagi ka nishkarsh hai:“Ab kisi ko zarurat se zyada izzat nahi deta,
Khaas banake sabak seekh liya hai.”
“Waqt ne sikhaya hai izzat sabko do,
Lekin itni bhi nahi ke apne aap se hi door ho jao.”
😌 And if you’re nodding your head while reading this… welcome to the club of the ‘over-givers’.
“Kisi ko jarurat se jyada izzat shayari” sirf lafzon ka khel nahi hai — yeh un jazbaaton ka saathi hai jo har kisi ne kabhi na kabhi jiya hai. Shayari us bhare dil ka halka hone ka zariya hai.
Agar aapne bhi kabhi kisi ko bina matlab ke, dil se izzat di ho aur badle mein sirf takleef mili ho, toh samajh jaiye — aap akelay nahi hain.